Would you ever date a current or former escort?

[yaletownfuckboi]

I wouldn’t date or have a relationship with an escort, whether current or past, because of the disgust factor, and our morals and values don’t align.

But the thing about this not matching your values is it goes both ways - if you date a women and she finds out you are seeing escorts - or finds out that you've seen them in the past - she will not want to date you anymore. Don't you agree? I don't think there is any women who would be cool with you seeing escorts, unless she herself is an ex-escort.

While I agree that many women might be uncomfortable dating a man who has seen escorts, I believe it's a different matter entirely from a man choosing not to date someone who is or was an escort.

Based on what I've seen, women generally seem much more forgiving of a man's past than men are of a woman's. Moreover, I believe that if a man meets all of her key criteria, checked all her other boxes and seems like a strong long-term partner, most women would likely overlook the fact that he had seen escorts in the past. 

This is purely anecdotal, but I know men who are in long-term relationships with high-quality women, and despite having seen escorts in the past, and their partners being aware of it, it hasn't caused any issues.

I also think the frequency makes a big difference, there's a significant distinction between a guys who’s seen an escort once or twice in his life, and someone who does so on a regular, weekly basis. But then theres also the question of if the woman would ever find out, and how she would find out, I think most woman wouldn't even ask. Whereas if a woman was an escort in the past the guy would almost certainly find out, and would likely find out quickly before he got in too deep.

I also think a key factor in how a woman judges a man for having seen escorts is why he did it, and whether it was out of necessity. If a man is generally attractive to women, not just physically, but as the full package, and occasionally saw escorts due to being busy or convenience, while still being capable of dating, having sex and forming relationships without paying, I think many women would be willing to overlook that part of his past. On the other hand, if a man is seen as unattractive and relied on escorts because it was the only way he could be with women or get laid, then I think most women would find that off putting and a dealbreaker.

Now, if a man saw escorts while he was in a relationship, that’s a completely different matter. I think most women would see that as a major red flag and a dealbreaker. Personally, I would never see escorts while in a relationship