08-01-2025, 02:44 PM
Define “date.”
The closest I came was hooking up with a girl I met on Tinder. It was casual until I found out she used to be an escort, sugar baby which falls in the category of sex worker. I told her point blank, I’m not going to be seen in public with someone who’s sold herself for money so our hanging out wont be dates out just at her place or mine for 1 thing. She stuck around for a few more hookups, but eventually tapped out because she “couldn’t handle” the fact I wouldn’t treat her like a normal girl and other guys were interested in her that would give her more respect.
Let’s be honest: dating a current or former sex worker isn’t just unwise, it’s a stain on your image. You instantly lose respect from other men, and you become a punchline in serious social or professional circles. No one takes the guy seriously who parades around with a woman who’s been passed around for a price.
It’s not a flex, it’s a liability. Business partners notice. Family notices. Even strangers judge it. Whether you like it or not, her past reflects on you. You become the guy who either didn’t know, didn’t care, or couldn’t do better.
I don’t care how “normalized” it becomes, there’s nothing impressive about building a future with someone whose past was for sale.
The closest I came was hooking up with a girl I met on Tinder. It was casual until I found out she used to be an escort, sugar baby which falls in the category of sex worker. I told her point blank, I’m not going to be seen in public with someone who’s sold herself for money so our hanging out wont be dates out just at her place or mine for 1 thing. She stuck around for a few more hookups, but eventually tapped out because she “couldn’t handle” the fact I wouldn’t treat her like a normal girl and other guys were interested in her that would give her more respect.
Let’s be honest: dating a current or former sex worker isn’t just unwise, it’s a stain on your image. You instantly lose respect from other men, and you become a punchline in serious social or professional circles. No one takes the guy seriously who parades around with a woman who’s been passed around for a price.
It’s not a flex, it’s a liability. Business partners notice. Family notices. Even strangers judge it. Whether you like it or not, her past reflects on you. You become the guy who either didn’t know, didn’t care, or couldn’t do better.
I don’t care how “normalized” it becomes, there’s nothing impressive about building a future with someone whose past was for sale.
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