Would you ever date a current or former escort?

[yaletownfuckboi]

No I wouldn't.
Any man with options and access to quality women wouldn't have a relationship with a current or former escort. Why would he? There are plenty of high quality women out there who have never been an escort and wouldn't even consider it.

[Wario]

No I wouldn't.
Any man with options and access to quality women wouldn't have a relationship with a current or former escort. Why would he? There are plenty of high quality women out there who have never been an escort and wouldn't even consider it.

I'm pretty sure stats show that women with over 20 sexual partners have like an 80-90% divorce rate or something. For men, it doesn’t seem to matter much unless they were virgins before marriage, virgin marriages are the strongest but thats not realistic for most men and woman. So yeah, this checks out. Marrying or seriously dating a former escort would probably be a disaster, not to mention the embarrassment  and humiliation that comes with it.

[lotlizard]

Hunter keeps kicking me and giving me the eyebrow
I can confirm it’s hard to get to know a sw personally

[OF_Manager]

I would never.

I create OnlyFans content and have worked as a male escort in the past. Many women avoid dating me because of that and my history, which I completely understand and don't take it personally. I've spent considerable time around women like that, they can be fun friends and are suitable for casual or FWB arrangements. However, I wouldn't pursue a serious relationship with a current or former escort. I might consider dating an OF model if she was highly successful and didn't produce B/G content.

Many of these women are deeply broken and troubled inside, and a significant number display sociopathic traits. Once they have been for sale, they will always be up for sale. I believe only men who are open to polyamorous or open relationships might consider being involved with them. But if you try to make it monogamous, there's a high chance of infidelity.

[yaletownfuckboi]

Many of these women are deeply broken and troubled inside, and a significant number display sociopathic traits.

Aside from the disgust factor of dating a current or former escort,

Something else to keep in mind, is alot of escorts (though not all) lead lives built on constant deception and lies. They often hide the truth from friends, family, people they date, and  acquaintances about their job and how they earn money. For many, it's a daily routine of constant lying. Entering a relationship with someone who is a habitual and chronic liar doesn't seem wise, you'd never be able to trust them, and given how practiced they are at deception, they’re likely very skilled at it.

And that doesn’t even touch on how many of them lie about their ages or use edited and outdated photos.

[Wario]

Its the having sex with incels, criminals and hideous men that does it for me. These woman have no standards.

[Peyto]

The insecurities, lies, mental issues due to drugs and manipulation would be the reasons I would avoid dating them. Its a recipe for disaster.

Besides, if you have equity/ money behind you.....be prepared to lose most of that lol. Ahhhh, no thanks. A hard no!!

[Luvdatbooty]

Interesting topic and I have presented with an opportunity to date an escort maybe 4-5 times in my life. I declined the invitation each time though.

It’s just too messy, I cant deal with the jealousy or the clients they have to see to make a living. I cant disconnect the sex they have for their job versus what they might have with me.

It does make me scratch my head when escorts hide from their bf that they do sex work on the side. I get why they do it, just not why they bother unless they don’t want to be dependent on the bf. Maybe that’s it.

I still see one lady that was an active escort/turned SB. She has a wealthy bf but works full time and does sex work on the side with me and perhaps a few other guys she trusts to be discreet.

So I guess he is the one dating the escort but doesn’t know it. Not sure I could date her myself even though she is hot, knowing what I know about her history and she is going behind her bfs back. Couldn’t trust her. She lies all the time. She has to to keep her double life from being exposed.

[yaletownfuckboi]

I still see one lady that was an active escort/turned SB. She has a wealthy bf but works full time and does sex work on the side with me and perhaps a few other guys she trusts to be discreet.

Sounds like a girl I know.
Did she perhaps used to work at Luxxxe Affairs? Russian accent? haha

[Luvdatbooty]

I still see one lady that was an active escort/turned SB. She has a wealthy bf but works full time and does sex work on the side with me and perhaps a few other guys she trusts to be discreet.

Sounds like a girl I know.
Did she perhaps used to work at Luxxxe Affairs? Russian accent? haha

lol, not this one. Guess this isn’t a unique situation. This girl was mostly indy at the time. Persian, no accent. 

I dont think this girl was ever totally faithful to any guy she dated. She always had at least her SD in the background she continued to see throughout all her relationships. 

I guess that money is hard to completely give up even if your bf pays most of your bills.

[Mrtea]

There are two kinds of SP’s: the ones who only know and only will know SW and the ones who use it to get higher goals in life. I would only date the latter, and a woman who didn’t do drugs, had a good head on her shoulders, intelligent and who is business savvy. If she has university education or is doing SW to get higher education, and has goals in her life outside of SW then she’s smart to use it to her advantage and to move forward.

Unfortunately many SP’s will get into this work and stay in it, and not do much with their life, and remain a lifelong whore, and no real man wants that. These two kinds of SP’s have a very different mindset, and I’m shocked other members here don’t see this. I personally only see SP’s that I know have big goals, invest their money, and use SW as a stepping stone to something bigger and their mindset is more like mine too.

Plus when you’re university educated, with a 6 figure salary you don’t want to talk to dummies or surround yourself with losers. You are the company you keep, and that goes for SP’s too.

[okfallsdude]

Sounds like a girl I know.
Did she perhaps used to work at Luxxxe Affairs? Russian accent? haha

lol, not this one. Guess this isn’t a unique situation. This girl was mostly indy at the time. Persian, no accent. 

I dont think this girl was ever totally faithful to any guy she dated. She always had at least her SD in the background she continued to see throughout all her relationships. 

I guess that money is hard to completely give up even if your bf pays most of your bills.

Poor guy gave her a baby

[yaletownfuckboi]

There are two kinds of SP’s: the ones who only know and only will know SW and the ones who use it to get higher goals in life. I would only date the latter, and a woman who didn’t do drugs, had a good head on her shoulders, intelligent and who is business savvy. If she has university education or is doing SW to get higher education, and has goals in her life outside of SW then she’s smart to use it to her advantage and to move forward.
Unfortunately many SP’s will get into this work and stay in it, and not do much with their life, and remain a lifelong whore, and no real man wants that. These two kinds of SP’s have a very different mindset, and I’m shocked other members here don’t see this. I personally only see SP’s that I know have big goals, invest their money, and use SW as a stepping stone to something bigger and their mindset is more like mine too.
Plus when you’re university educated, with a 6 figure salary you don’t want to talk to dummies or surround yourself with losers. You are the company you keep, and that goes for SP’s too.

Literally no one is claiming that there aren’t various types of escorts with different motivations and goals.

I wouldn’t date or have a relationship with an escort, whether current or past, because of the disgust factor, and our morals and values don’t align.

I don’t care about her motivations, goals, mindset, why she’s doing it, or whether she’s smart or investing her money, it's a turn-off and a dealbreaker for me. I know many guys feel the same.

I agree that you are the company you keep. However, I don’t spend much time with escorts. If I were to make a list of the people I spend the most time with, no escort would even come close to making the top 50. When I do spend time with an escort, it’s usually just 30 to 90 minutes, and for me, it’s more about their appearance, service, and attitude than anything else.

Just because you live a more isolated life, with a smaller social circle, and have fewer options when it comes to dating or long-term relationships doesn’t mean everyone else is in the same position. I have plenty of options, and fortunately, most of the women I know and meet would never consider being an escort. I’m in a position to set standards and preferences, and I choose not to date someone who’s currently an escort or has been one in the past. I’ll stick to those preferences.

That doesn’t mean there aren’t some great escorts who are smart and well grounded. I’ve met plenty. But I’d never date or have a serious relationship with someone who’s been an escort, past or present. It’s just not something I’d consider, period.

[Marko]

I wouldn’t date or have a relationship with an escort, whether current or past, because of the disgust factor, and our morals and values don’t align.

But the thing about this not matching your values is it goes both ways - if you date a women and she finds out you are seeing escorts - or finds out that you've seen them in the past - she will not want to date you anymore. Don't you agree? I don't think there is any women who would be cool with you seeing escorts, unless she herself is an ex-escort.